lzbeth asked:
Oh, and I’m not looking for kinky. Actually would like to meet interesting men who are honest & sincere. Are there signs in their profile? Cuz I really got blind-sided and feel stupid.
How can you tell if someone you met on internet dating site is well, kinky?
November 5th, 2008 · 10 Comments
Tags: Other - Internet
10 responses so far ↓
1 Rachel M // Nov 7, 2008 at 10:42 pm
When their conversations and words have sexual undertones
2 ♥Persephone♥ // Nov 8, 2008 at 5:19 pm
conversations are only about sex and fetishes
3 Lloyd // Nov 11, 2008 at 2:53 pm
Ask them…. “Are you kinky?”
4 dslant6 // Nov 14, 2008 at 12:29 am
When they post pictures of themselves with handcuffs, chains, whips, and leather underwear. That might be a hint.
5 October // Nov 15, 2008 at 6:48 am
Most guys you meet on the internet are kinky
6 LadyRebecca // Nov 18, 2008 at 8:42 am
Well, I think it’s hard to tell over the net, because people can hide behind any sort of persona they like, that wouldn’t necessarily relfect who they are “in real life”.
So even if someone ‘talks the talk’, it doesn’t necessarily mean they can ‘walk the walk’
7 patti // Nov 21, 2008 at 12:50 am
When they are more interested in asking about your sexual past as opposed to questions about what kind of person you are outside that arena.
8 Steve n // Nov 23, 2008 at 7:20 pm
It’s hard to know without really knowing someone in person or talking to them a long time.
I hate to say it, but “bait” him. Nothing explicit, just something you consider kinky and wouldn’t go for (don’t say you’re not for it, be neutral). Just enough to see if he’ll take the ball and run. If “kinky” is not what you want, then you’ll know.
9 goose1077 // Nov 25, 2008 at 5:25 am
All people are Kinky. Actually the number is only 99 %. It’s just a question of weather or not you feel the freedom to express it. Maybe you should just get in touch with your kinky side. I think you will like that part of you.
10 Anmont // Nov 25, 2008 at 2:52 pm
You know what. Before I was married, I tried my luck at the online dating gamble. What I found is that no matter how honest or straighforward I was, women thought I was strange. I did not receive any replies. Being a person who has no vices, has a lot to offer and had a straight agenda (not looking for strange sex, one night stands, sugar momma etc.) All I can say, is to avoid the braggers, the deep romantics, and the ‘cool’ people. Put it to the acid test, and ask to bring a friend along (preferebly male). Get to know them and decide. I think that is the only way you are going to win. Sometimes the people who are the funniest on the internet are the most serious, and the people who seem staight cut are the kinkiest. The people who say the odd things are the ones going out on a limb to be honest.
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